Trouble in Paradise
We often hear of couples who were once in love turning into couples who are now in trouble. If you’re having problems in your relationship, if you’re feeling duped, disillusioned or disappointed, like you’re in love with the man you thought he was and not who he turned out to be, then it’s time to find out what’s going on before it’s too late.
Life Changes Us
First, you have to ask yourself what has changed. Certainly people will change over time, and that’s inevitable. Life itself will change all of us to some degree through both joyous and sad events—the birth of a child or the loss of a parent, for example. If the only thing you think has changed is the man you’re in love with, then you have to ask yourself:
Are you in love with who he is, who you thought he was or who you hoped he’d be?
In Love With the Man He is
If you answered that you’re in love with the man he currently is, then you have chosen to accept him as he is today, despite your relationship undergoing the inevitable changes to come. Kudos to you for having a relationship that shows great communication, understanding and flexibility.
In Love With the Man You Thought He Was
If your man just isn’t who you thought he was, you … [keep reading]