Relationship Advice: Should You Always Be Available?

Are-You-Making-Yourself-too-Available-to-Him-200Sometimes the Best Relationship Advice is to Tell Him You’re Busy

When you first meet a guy and you really like him, it’s natural to want to see him all the time—especially when he wants to see you all the time too. But if you’re making yourself too available to him, then things may not turn out exactly as you hoped. Check out this relationship advice.

What a Guy Wants

A guy wants a confident girl with an active and busy life. You had friends, family and work obligations before you met him and so did he before he met you. Now that you’re together, you should fit your alone time in with whatever else is going on in your lives. This means you shouldn’t clear your deck and cancel any plans you have to be with someone. Don’t fall off the radar and push everyone and everything in your life aside for someone else. If you do, you’re saying their time is more valuable than yours.

The guy you’re dating should be fine with you being busy. He should be open to rescheduling if he really wants to see you. Just remember that being too busy is as bad for your relationship as being too available.

The Consequences of Being too Available

1. Your friends and family will feel neglected if all of your free time is devoted to the new guy in your life. They’ll be hurt if you constantly cancel plans with them to be with him.

2. If you make yourself too available, the guy you’re seeing will eventually [CLICK HERE TO KEEP READING ...]

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Relationship Advice: Is Your Neediness Pushing Them Away?

Are You too Needy?

Are You too Needy?

Are You Pushing Them Away?

If you find yourself wondering why they haven’t called in a week or why they’re ignoring your texts, you may have to ask yourself if you’re being too clingy. If you are, your clinginess may be pushing them away. Do you feel like they’re pulling away from you? People tend to pull away when they feel smothered. To regain the balance in a relationship, you have to be willing to give the other person some space.

Your Relationship is Energy

Think of a relationship as energy. If a couple is equal in their attention and affection, there is balance and harmony in their relationship. But if one person gives more than the other person is willing to give, the balance shifts. Then one person becomes distant and the other person becomes needy and desperate for the affection they once had. It can become a vicious cycle and one that has the ability to intensify. The result is a serious relationship crash and burn.

Space and Room to Breathe

Being clingy in a relationship won’t get you the closeness you want. In fact, it will push the object of your affection away. But if you give them space and room to breathe, you’ll draw them closer. It may sound counterproductive, but in order to hold onto something in a genuine way, you need to be willing to let it go.

There’s a big difference between “I want you because I need you,” and “I need you because I want you.” If you want someone desperately because you need them to make you feel whole or complete, that’s a lot of pressure to put on a person and a relationship. It scares people and makes them run and hide no matter how much they liked you in the beginning. When you need someone because you genuinely want to be with them, that’s an entirely different feeling. When you both want to be with one another, the feeling is mutual and the energy between you is equal.

You’re Needy if… 

1. You Call/Text Excessively: What’s excessive? Calling or texting someone several times before they return your call or text is excessive. Don’t assume they’re ignoring you. They could be driving, in the shower or busy at work. They’ll call or text you back. If you call or text them too many times, when they finally get back to you it won’t be pleasant.  [Click Here to Keep Reading ...]

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Your August Money Horoscope: The Bottomless Wallet

August-Money-Horoscope-200Luxury Seems Like a Necessity in Your Money Horoscope

Expansive, magnetic Jupiter is on fire this month, having just moved into the sign of Leo. In Leo, Jupiter reminds the other planets that it’s the leader of the universe (just don’t tell the Sun). Your August Money Horoscope kicks off on August 1 when Jupiter squares with Mars, urging you to spend, spend and spend. Mid-month, Jupiter and Venus conjunct in Leo, making luxury seem like a necessity.

There’s plenty more going on in your August Money Horoscope, but the message overall is to pump the brakes when it comes to over-indulging. Go for quality over quantity.

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Advice for Those Who’ve Never Been in a Romantic Relationship

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Relationship!?

Don’t Give Up on Having a Romantic Relationship!

Whether they’re in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s or older, some people have never been in a romantic relationship. And if you’re one of them, chances are you feel like the older your get, the harder it’s going to be to find and keep love. If you’re single and feeling lonely and would like to have someone special in your life, then you need to figure out what’s been holding you back from finding lasting love. It’s time to do things a little differently.

This may seem simple, but in order to find a romantic relationship, you can’t give up on love. Rather, you have to be actively looking for it. Womenatforty.com tells us that women tend to put more effort into buying a new pair of shoes than they put into finding a romantic relationship. It’s shocking to think, but it actually makes sense and it’s probably why you’re still single. Your first step in finding a romantic relationship is to commit to finding love.

Bringing the Inside Out

Maybe you’ve never been in a relationship because you don’t feel like you have much to offer. That’s not true. Each of us is special in our own unique way and if you show the world who you are on the inside, you will eventually meet someone who thinks you’re pretty special.

Shyness

If you’re shy, it isn’t easy for you to strike up conversations with strangers. Shyness is actually endearing. But you do know how to … [click here to keep reading]

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Relationship Advice: When it Comes to Love, Are You Settling?

How-to-Know-When-Your-Settling-200The 5 Signs That Indicate You May Be Settling

If you’re contemplating staying in a relationship, even though you know it just isn’t right for you, you’re settling. When you’ve given up all hope of finding Mr. Right, you’re settling for Mr. Right Now. There are many things we do to indicate that we have settled for the person we’re with, and have given up on looking for the person we’re meant to be with. Here are five signs that you’re settling for a person who doesn’t meet your needs, whether they be emotional, physical or mental.

1. You’ve Changed Your Looks, Habits and Behaviors for Them

Do you keep your opinions to yourself in order to avoid arguments?
Have your modified your body or do you dress in a way that only appeals to someone else?
Do you only participate in activities that make them happy?

2. You Overlook Their Intolerable Behavior Because You Don’t Want to be Single

Have they cheated on you one or more times?
Do they disregard your feelings?
Are they overbearing and domineering?
Are they physically or emotionally abusive?

 3. You’re With Them for Superficial Reasons

Are you with them only because they’re attractive?
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